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Stop Yer Complainin\u2019 and Do Something!<\/h2>\nStop Yer Complainin\u2019 and Do Something!<\/h2>\nBy Shane Bennett<\/p>\n
I had a challenging, even upsetting, conversation after church a couple weeks ago. I had promo\u2019d the upcoming speaker and mentioned the guy would be talking, in part, about racism. I may have mentioned that if you didn\u2019t want to hear that, you might choose to stay home.<\/p>\n
Afterwards, a friend asked to chat and expressed concern. One point led to another until he\u2019d given me his socio-political view of life. When he paused after lamenting how divided our country currently is, I jumped in. \u201cWhat\u2019s the solution, Tom? What can be done?\u201d He replied, \u201cI don\u2019t know. But I do know the socialism that\u2019s being pushed on us these days isn\u2019t going to make things better!\u201d<\/p>\n
Maybe not. But deep inside my brain a circuit fizzed, smoked, and blew. I can still feel my frustration. How often do we complain, complain, complain, but don\u2019t lift a finger in an effort for positive change?<\/p>\n
This pattern is not wholly illogical. Some problems are so huge, intractable, and deep-rooted that we throw our hands up and believe there\u2019s nothing we can do but object. Other problems are our own that we project on others. And addressing some problems come with such high social risk that we back off. It\u2019s safer to vent to like-minded friends than risk their disapproval by beating our swords into plowshares.<\/p>\n
On the other hand, the Bible warns us about grumbling and complaining. Paul recounts for his rascals in Corinth how God dramatically responded to Israel\u2019s grousing (1 Corinthians 10:8-11). Jesus was pretty straightforward when he told the Jews (and us), \u201cStop grumbling among yourselves\u201d (John 6:41-51).<\/p>\n
So, here\u2019s the principle I\u2019m trying to live by. Don\u2019t complain about something that you\u2019re not going to take productive action to change.<\/p>\n
Just don\u2019t complain For instance, I don\u2019t complain a lot about certain policy issues. I\u2019ve learned they aren\u2019t my battle, though my opinion about them play a role in how I vote. But the things God has called me to act on? I\u2019m going to squawk about them! Intelligently. And graciously. And I\u2019ll do my best to take the action God gives me to take, which I assume will often include equipping others to take godly action. Toward that end, two things people complain about and some positive action we can take.<\/p>\n Have you ever been a pastor? I haven\u2019t been a real one, but I\u2019ve played around with some part-time roles and know some of how people, including me, complain about church. You may have far deeper familiarity, present pain or more serious grounds for concern. I get that.<\/p>\n But how often many of us complain about what\u2019s said and what goes unsaid. About the choice of songs and the volume at which they\u2019re played. About what\u2019s not getting done, and then when someone steps up, how it\u2019s not done right. We grouse about who\u2019s there and who\u2019s not there, how little the church does for missions, or kids, or the poor\u2026 along with pretty much everything the leaders say and do. At least we don\u2019t complain about someone sitting in our pew any more. (We don\u2019t, do we?) What positive, change-oriented action might grow out of our complaints?<\/p>\n Here\u2019s one I\u2019m thinking about these days: Pray for our pastors. Deliberately, faithfully. You may already do this. Kudos to you. I\u2019d like to see a groundswell of prayer for our church leaders during Pastor Appreciation Month this coming October. A dear friend of mine says, \u201cMaybe a good starting point is to pray about something for the same amount of time you complain about it!\u201d I say, \u201cWho has that kind of time?\u201d But I do want to pray for my pastor.<\/p>\n I plan to put together a one-page guide to praying for pastors. If you\u2019re game, I\u2019d love to hear what you pray for your pastor or what you think should be prayed for them. Click below to the list. If someone has already said what you were going to say, feel free to put an \u201camen\u201d or \u201cI agree\u201d beside or below it. The guide will be available in next month\u2019s Practical Mobilization article.<\/p>\n Share your thoughts<\/a><\/p>\n I live in a beautiful part of Colorado. That describes pretty much the whole state! I haven\u2019t been here all my life. Yet I can get a little chippy about new people coming here. Also, about Texans speeding on the interstate (sorry, y\u2019all!). And in my nation and maybe yours, I hear many complaints about outsiders moving in.<\/p>\n Without getting deep in the weeds about border security, who\u2019s an economic migrant and who really needs asylum, and the degree to which someone must look and sound like me in order to qualify as \u201cintegrated,\u201d can I suggest four positive actions we might take or kindly propose these to others who seem particularly stressed about these issues?<\/p>\n So much could happen if we simply asked some good questions and listened to the answers. Last week, an insightful and influential website, The Denison Forum, published an article I wrote on this topic of starting conversations. It would be great if you could give it a little boost simply by clicking through to it<\/a>. If you comment, I\u2019d be over the moon! The Denison Forum might be a good way to get some of what we all think out to a wider world. The article is about Muslims in particular, but the ideas would work with anyone somewhat different from you.<\/p>\n Check out the Bridge Experience<\/a>. I think you have to live near Lancaster, PA to experience this, but what a fascinating idea: They train refugee families to host local residents in their homes for dinner. Refugees make some money and the locals get to experience the refugee\u2019s culture. I\u2019d love to see this idea popping up all over. Want to try to make it happen where you live?<\/p>\n A high-quality movie about an immigrant or refugee experience can make a lasting mark on even a hardened heart. Going to the trouble of screening one at your church may have amazing results.<\/p>\n I love both The Good Lie<\/a> and The Visitor<\/a>.<\/p>\n If you have ideas for films that will open our hearts to immigrants, as well as ideas about how to get people to come out to see them, please share them below or on our Facebook page<\/a>.<\/p>\n I\u2019m looking for three intrepid youth groups to visit (\u201cinvade\u201d?) an American refugee community with me next summer. We\u2019ll listen, play, and serve. Basically, we\u2019ll stop our grousing about others and discover God\u2019s up to amazing work in and through all sorts of people. Email me to learn more<\/a>.<\/p>\n Do you have another issue which is easy to complain about, but hard to take action on? Let the Missions Catalyst tribe take a crack at it! Comment below or on our Facebook page<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Stop Yer Complainin\u2019 and Do Something! 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\n(Tweet this<\/a>.)<\/p>\nInstead of Complaining about Church<\/h3>\n
Instead of Complaining about Refugees, Immigrants, and Other \u201cOthers\u201d<\/h3>\n
1. Have a conversation.<\/h4>\n
2. Have dinner with a refugee family.<\/h4>\n
3. Watch films about the immigrant experience.<\/h4>\n
4. Take your kids to hang out with new neighbors.<\/h4>\n
Thoughts?<\/h3>\n