{"id":2672,"date":"2012-02-08T01:05:03","date_gmt":"2012-02-08T07:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/?p=2672"},"modified":"2015-04-08T08:35:12","modified_gmt":"2015-04-08T15:35:12","slug":"missions-catalyst-02-08-12-practical-mobilization","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/?p=2672","title":{"rendered":"Missions Catalyst 02.08.12 &#8211; Practical Mobilization"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\" align=\"right\"><strong>In This Issue: Debriefing &#8211; 7 deadly debacles<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Seven Deadly Debriefing Debacles<\/li>\n<li>Mission Events<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\" align=\"right\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.missionscatalyst.org\/\"><!--more-->Missions Catalyst<\/a> is a free, weekly electronic digest of mission news and resources designed to inspire and equip Christians worldwide for global ministry. Use it to fuel your prayers, find tips and opportunities, and stay in touch with how God is building his kingdom all over the world. Please forward it freely!<\/p>\n<h3>Seven Deadly Debriefing Debacles<\/h3>\n<p>By <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQUHKyYJVBFQWFfxIbXZXainJM8B2vT5cCeVTSgG4VTUbMqFDOZfYOvzFHQnlKxvUY\" target=\"_blank\">Shane Bennett<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/International-arrivals.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-2673 size-full\" title=\"International arrivals\" src=\"https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/International-arrivals.jpg\" alt=\"International arrivals\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/International-arrivals.jpg 500w, https:\/\/missionscatalyst.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/International-arrivals-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the time of year when a young man&#8217;s fancy turns to thoughts of, &#8220;Where am I going to go this summer and who can I take with me?!?&#8221; At least that&#8217;s where my thoughts go. And sure, it might have been better had my thoughts turned this way a couple of months ago, but hey, here we are now.<\/p>\n<p>So you&#8217;re planning on leading a team somewhere this summer, right? (Do I need to remind you that ALL <em>Mission Catalyst<\/em> readers are contractually obligated to lead summer teams? Better have another look at the subscription <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQXPZ2H4QO931BV388C0IiQWLuxieIyxu4a6xBwWBQYjOYQwl_oAN_B26ArN3cuHIa_tok3T8zCHoBZ8k35SU70ySk7nvwDExh6zD9EyQUKtIVG3K3hA81rLJke1uPDzoH\" target=\"_blank\">Terms and Conditions<\/a>. See item 1, paragraph two.) Can I encourage you from the very beginning to carefully consider the ending? Debriefing cross-cultural experiences can increase the impact on participants by 40%. (OK, I made up that stat, but it really is important.)<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes in the adventure and excitement of pulling a trip together, the sum-up section gets overlooked. Pitfalls may plague even the well-planned debrief times. Forewarned is forearmed, so I&#8217;ve gathered seven of the more common debrief foul-ups.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be really clear here: I have only heard about these mistakes. I have not personally experienced them, no. And I definitely have not made these mistakes myself. At least not all of them, not all in the past week.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The Seven Deadly Debacles<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>1. I forgot about debriefing!\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve done this and I can hardly believe it. I should know better. You should too. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m telling you. Plan early to &#8220;tithe&#8221; your short-term experience time to debrief. A day trip to an immigrant area in a nearby city gets a 90-minute debrief. A ten-day excursion to Athens requires a whole day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. We&#8217;ll pick a day to debrief once we&#8217;re back and settled.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yeah? Well, you might as well wait until the &#8220;roll is called up yonder,&#8221; because you won&#8217;t be getting together down here. Once a team lands back on home soil, an amazing elemental force kicks in to prevent that collection of people from ever occupying the same room at the same time again. I can&#8217;t explain it. I can only observe it. Lock in your debrief day(s) early.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. I think I&#8217;ll just wing this debriefing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is a good way to celebrate the debriefing of your 100th team. Short of that, please have a plan. Check out some helpful articles for ideas on <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQ8U_OwIqyGjujXsFPRze63H8_M5FDb69b0QuS_Mq_ouLrBI7Q_qNgcVZfk8Qa3b1oAlJYVI8EweyC5htQAypgi96jPrz9bXU8w0Qd3UztYl0=\" target=\"_blank\">making a good plan<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQ8U_OwIqyGjujXsFPRze63H8_M5FDb69b0QuS_Mq_ouLrBI7Q_qNgcbWz_44U80jYOrxOYhafhIk=\" target=\"_blank\">questions to ask<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQ8U_OwIqyGjujXsFPRze63Guz60TMl3wWnggIg9tfkfFG-84DVm6CT-pqg-WJyCeUh8C0HaEDCtbpfLKlJakcqtnStVtIND-2AEdA3w4sNLdPF9S893E6mW-oOxH0WXuXJp6DACewTmjWDzVNRpRrmn2NC3vgYtIu0i2wMKa8anK56S9SwrApsEtkycvKSd09v9Wc6mFy1Cz4EPXlfDNl7r-mC8xtemdiZXiUVXmwFk0=\" target=\"_blank\">basic components of a good debrief<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. I&#8217;ve scheduled every minute so I feel nicely in control.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ahhh, it&#8217;s a good feeling for some of us. Our five-hour debrief session is broken up into 35 specific blocks, including two 90-second bathroom breaks, and we even have a back-up timer in case the main one malfunctions!<\/p>\n<p>While a plan-free debrief can lead to rambling, an over-regimented schedule says at least two things:<\/p>\n<p>A. &#8220;Since we probably don&#8217;t have time to hear your whole story, please respond with short, shallow answers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>B. &#8220;Thanks, Holy Spirit, but I&#8217;ve got this one covered.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Be ready to flex for a tear, a cheer, and when the Holy Spirit decides to interfere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. I hope the right people show up.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Muff the guest list and it&#8217;s hard to recover. Nothing says, &#8220;This debrief doesn&#8217;t really matter,&#8221; like key participants not showing up. If your pastor was on the team, make sure he can be at debriefing. Again, this goes back to planning ahead. Set the tone early: Debriefing is as much a part of the experience as the plane ride and preaching.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Talk on, nonstop jabber mouth.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nonstop jabber mouth&#8221; can happen to you, as a leader, if you fail to plan. You will cover your lack of preparation by launching into extemporaneous debrief talk which quickly devolves into stream-of-consciousness chatter. And because you don&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re going, it&#8217;s pretty hard to tell when you arrive &#8211; and maybe drive right on by two or three good stopping points. A good rule of thumb is to have a solid but flexible plan (see #3 and #4) with the intention that most of the talking, say 80%, will be done by the participants, not you.<\/p>\n<p>The other side of the jabber-mouth equation is that it may be a participant who answers each and every question with a poignant, though ponderous, story whose length puts all but the most stalwart team member to sleep. Your job here is gatekeeping, and I hate it. But you have to do it. If you don&#8217;t close the gate, all the cows will wander down to the pond for a drink and a snooze.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to use the dreaded line, &#8220;Let&#8217;s let someone else share.&#8221; Or maybe give a time limit and go around the circle. &#8220;You have exactly two minutes to respond to this and I want to hear from everybody. Billy will keep time.&#8221; That&#8217;s harsh, but it&#8217;s less embarrassing than having everyone but Johnny Jabbermouth looking at you, screaming out with their eyes, &#8220;Please, for the love of all things holy, make it stop!!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a bonus from Interpersonal Skills 101: I&#8217;ve found that most people who tend to talk incessantly have had experience with people asking them to stop. (Surprising, no?) If you gate-keep them, they&#8217;ll be OK with it because it&#8217;s not the first time it&#8217;s happened. There are some who get offended, cry, and tell on you; it doesn&#8217;t matter how nice and in the Spirit you are. These things happen. Don&#8217;t let talkative types spoil things for everyone else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Feel free to keep quiet, Silent Sue.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a manifestly bad idea to hold a debrief where participation only means showing up. Getting people to talk, however, is a tricky art. Some of your team members may be those 35-year-old men who simply don&#8217;t have &#8220;feelings about life in the village.&#8221; Others, maybe also 35-year-old men, do have feelings about life in the village, and it is such a weird sensation that they think if they start talking about what they saw in India they&#8217;ll cry like a baby and get themselves tossed out of their hunting club.<\/p>\n<p>Then there are other participants, maybe younger ones, who are pouting about a &#8220;mistake&#8221; you made at the start of the trip. They reward your &#8220;incompetence&#8221; with the silent treatment (or its first cousin, the &#8220;incessantly text through the whole meeting&#8221; treatment). Either way, you lose their participation and may have to face collateral damage as others wonder, &#8220;What&#8217;s up with her?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Good questions and varying mechanisms of response may help. I like to have people write stuff down, then share what they wrote. Have some evaluations that are turned in and some responses that can be kept completely private. And for those who stare at their phones through the whole meeting? Well, if kind, loving requests don&#8217;t work, you can always resort to <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQ8U_OwIqyGjtoYmt75b2OfEh8TD5WLvisW8ulQpFkfRJapU-KDs1k6c6V80CNd4g58lQ8B7wr48tTKLOrHO9740L2S_Bsvxbzljb4tPP1rfxORSlOZ-EQmg==\" target=\"_blank\">jamming<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&gt;&gt; Got a great debrief debacle story of your own? Or better yet, someone else&#8217;s? Please share it.<\/p>\n<h3>Mission Events<\/h3>\n<p>We just added a few more to our online calendar &#8211; but they&#8217;re happening on the same weekend so you can&#8217;t go to both!<\/p>\n<p>March 16 to 18 &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.visionhome2012.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Vision Home<\/a> conference (Philadelphia, PA, USA). &#8220;What must it be like to return to China as a Christian when you had no concept of Christianity when you left for the States?\u00a0 Wouldn&#8217;t it be great to be with some people who can help you prepare for your return?&#8221; Pass the word on to any Chinese students you know or share it with friends who work with internationals.<\/p>\n<p>March 16 to 18 &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thejourneydeepens.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Journey Deepens Retreat<\/a> (Dallas, TX, USA). Sense God is calling you into missions, but need help in discerning your direction? The Journey Deepens Retreat is a great next step. Good for young adults, but all are welcome. Similar events are scheduled for Portland, OR (April 20 to 22) and Philadelphia, PA (May 18 to 20).<\/p>\n<p>&gt;&gt; <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1109212953483&amp;s=0&amp;e=0016TScK-xsVBjAc3bg6-0_LrVq986r65VEkFSxRdx1ZwMXLI3dB71WDVbu4RFRVVFQUHKyYJVBFQWFfxIbXZXainJM8B2vT5cCeVTSgG4VTUbMqFDOZfYOvyJc_n4Q7OzK\" target=\"_blank\">View complete calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:shanebennett@takeitglobal.org\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" title=\"ShaneBennett\" src=\"..\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/04\/ShaneBennett1-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"124\" height=\"184\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:shanebennett@takeitglobal.org\" target=\"_blank\">Shane Bennett<\/a> has served in missions mobilization since 1987, much of his energy going to recruiting, training, and sending short-term teams. He\u2019s been on research teams in Bangkok, Bombay, and Turkey. He coauthored <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1104439231559&amp;s=0&amp;e=001JFwnltQYuyiHt6lM0XjZzUjW5YeT8DY3EuTsut0M7XjT_LltRp1EDaeDHgC-9vV0yc3IprbKAOo0U4fI50Wo776bejR1s9k1WXUFv3byNIQ8D10Y1wQgs0wAQKdS8xDAbkFs-0xcxpjEn6XR9yHuwA==\" target=\"_blank\">Exploring the Land<\/a>, a guide to researching unreached peoples, and has written numerous articles.<\/p>\n<p>Shane now works as a public speaker for <a href=\"http:\/\/r20.rs6.net\/tn.jsp?llr=zaeaz4bab&amp;et=1104439231559&amp;s=0&amp;e=001JFwnltQYuyiHt6lM0XjZzUjW5YeT8DY3EuTsut0M7XjT_LltRp1EDaeDHgC-9vV0yc3IprbKAOqFuy_XASOJW4fCx73EpAEJrrSU4Rt8gOc=\" target=\"new\">Frontiers<\/a> and helps his church, <a href=\"http:\/\/commonwaychurch.com\/\">Commonway<\/a>, follow God to the nations. He and his wife, Ann, have five school-aged children. 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